In a world obsessed with early success and perfectly curated lives, Vera Wang’s story is a reminder that there is no correct timeline. She didn’t design her first wedding dress until she was nearly 40 - and went on to build one of the most influential fashion empires in the world. This post is for anyone feeling a little lost, behind, or unsure of their next step. You’re not late. You have time.

Nineteen is a very strange age - old enough to feel pressure, young enough to still have no idea what you’re doing. I thought I had it all figured out… until I didn’t. Here’s what happened when I let go of my “plan” and learned to be okay with feeling lost.